Valentine

2025 - 2 - 13

Cupid's Misses: How Valentine's Day Can Go Hilariously Wrong!

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From ER visits to photo booth escapades, find out how Valentine's Day can go from romantic to ridiculous!

Valentine’s Day is a time for love, but sometimes Cupid’s arrow doesn’t quite hit the mark. Take, for instance, a short video message from Bishop Prof. Dr. Heinrich Bedford-Strohm, who reflects on love as a central theme and its spiritual significance. While his insights remind us of the beautiful essence of love, not everyone has such a rosy experience. Guardian readers have humorously shared their Valentine's Day calamities, including emergency room visits when date nights went wrong! Who knew love could come with a side of medical drama?

In addition to those less-than-perfect experiences, there's a cultural twist we can embrace on this day. In Nigeria, the Yoruba tradition teaches that flowers are more than just romantic gifts; they represent respect and gratitude towards Orishas and ancestors. This practice has prompted calls from some to decolonize Valentine’s Day, transforming it into a celebration of love that signifies reverence rather than mere consumerism. Why restrict love to just chocolates and cards when it can be an opportunity to honor our heritage?

Speaking of cards, a team of analytical experts dove into nearly 600 Hallmark cards to decode the secret trends of romantic expression. Worksheets piled high, they discovered that the best cards are not just pithy statements about love but convey real emotion and connection. Couples looking for a meaningful way to express their feelings might want to consider what’s trending—or just stick with their own heartfelt words, since sincerity always wins!

For those planning to enjoy good food and company this Valentine’s, we also highlight the top date spots that cater to groups, be it friends or partners. Picture this: a charming restaurant that overlooks a vineyard and serves a carefully curated menu for food enthusiasts. It’s a fantastic backdrop for a romantic dinner or a girls’ night out, proving that love comes in many forms, including friendship and shared experiences!

Interesting fact: In 2021, the global Valentine's Day market was estimated to exceed $21 billion, showcasing just how seriously some people take this day. Additionally, did you know that 73% of people who celebrate Valentine’s Day plan to spend it with their significant others, while 27% are throwing fun anti-Valentine's parties? Love is wild and so are the ways we celebrate it!

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Image courtesy of "World Council of Churches"

On Valentine's Day and always, “Love is the central theme in our ... (World Council of Churches)

In a short video message, Bishop Prof. Dr Heinrich Bedford-Strohm, moderator of the World Council of Churches central committee, reflects on the Thursdays ...

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'I've ended up in the ER twice': when Valentine's Day goes horribly ... (The Guardian)

Guardian readers share their tales of when 14 February – an occasion for love and sweet surprises – didn't go to plan.

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Decolonise Valentine's Day – The Mail & Guardian (Mail and Guardian)

In the Nigerian Yoruba tradition, flowers are offered to the Orishas (deities) and ancestors as a symbol of respect, gratitude and reverence. The East African ...

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Squeeze into a photo booth for a Valentine's Day smooch (NPR)

In honor of Valentine's Day, we stop in at the new Photo Booth Museum in San Francisco to find out how people are using the booths to celebrate their love.

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We analyzed nearly 600 Hallmark cards. Here's what we learned (CNN)

Valentine's Day means flowers, chocolate and picking out the perfect card to express your affection. We analyzed nearly 600 cards to spot trends about ...

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Valentine's Day: The perfect date spots for you and your gals or your ... (Glamour South Africa)

The restaurant over looks the vineyard and if the views aren't enough the menu is a carefully curated selection of dishes to tempt any food enthusiasts palette ...

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Eat, Pray, Love: How to Keep Chemicals Out of Valentines - Earth Day (Earth Day)

Celebrate love without plastic! Microplastics and toxic dyes harm our health and planet. This Valentine's, choose gifts and meals that protect your loved ...

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Poverty kills off Valentine's – The Mail & Guardian (Mail and Guardian)

Red dresses and black tuxedoes, chocolates and roses on the streets of Johannesburg, Tunis, Luanda and Lagos, romantic whispers from the Accra to Mombasa, ...

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STALLARD: Getting one valentine is all it takes (Lufkin Daily News)

Over time, I came to realize there's a reason for the apostrophe in “Valentine's Day.”

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Valentine's Day may be the world's most hated holiday – but I won't ... (The Guardian)

You don't need flowers, chocolates or a card. You don't even need to be celebrating romantic love. But I like the idea of recognising the everlasting ...

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A Funeral Rose on Valentine's Day (ChristianityToday.com)

My dad was not a martyr. He wasn't killed for his faith; he died of cancer. But he did live—and die—in a way that set an example for me. Early in his illness, ...

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Why, After 6 Years of Celebrating, My Partner and I Are Boycotting ... (SELF)

One couple is ditching the traditional Valentine's Day celebration after six years—and sharing how they're redefining the holiday on their own terms.

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The great Valentine's Day con (Spectator.co.uk)

A few days later, it was followed by the new aphrodisiac version of the Knorr stock cube, Knorrplay, and a set of champagne glasses adorned with red hearts.

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POLL | Do you celebrate Valentine's Day? (TimesLIVE)

February 14 marks the celebration of Valentine's Day, a day that has become synonymous with romantic relationships, love and affection.

Gauteng Health encourages couples to prioritise thier lover's health ... (South African Government)

This Valentine's Day, the Gauteng Department of Health (GDoH) is encouraging couples to celebrate their love in a way that also prioritises their health.

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Dorset: Valentine's Day florist shares unusual bouquet requests (BBC News)

A thong in a bunch of roses, flowers wrapped in £50 notes and an engagement ring amongst the blooms - some of the more unusual Valentine's requests received ...

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Eight tips a sex educator wants you to know this Valentine's Day (The Independent Florida Alligator)

Whether you're planning a date night or enjoying some calming alone time for Valentine's Day, a little preparation can help ensure your holiday goes ...

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The Valentine's Day Card I Got From My Dad After He Died (Today.com)

I used to think when someone dies, the relationship ends. I was wrong. Lisa McCarty. Days after my dad died ...

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